DR. CARI ONEAL PRESENTS
HOW TO MAKE A
SEXUAL OFFER
Ask for what you want, negotiate, & close the deal with confidence! This is the class for Swingers who want to get the most fun & pleasure out of their time at parties without wasting time beating around the bush.
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WHY I CREATED THIS CLASS
Less Time Wasted = More Fun!
One of the most awkward and poorly executed things I see in the Lifestyle is people who don’t know how to make an offer for the sexual exchange they want.
Many times, couples will flirt all night and go home without having the experience they'd hoped for. Or if they do get to play, the action doesn't start until quite late or early in the morning (sadly, when erections and stamina are not at their best).
You can do better than that!
Why not learn how to make an offer, negotiate it to a win/win, and enjoy the rest of the night closing the deal!
I created an easy-to-remember formula for how to make a sexual offer that is courteous, consensual, and extremely efficient at finding and creating the sexual experience(s) you want.
This formula uses what we know about brain science, human nature, and information from thousands of client sessions to ensure your success. I will take out the guess work for you and teach you what to say and when to say it. By following the very specific order I provide, you can share your intentions, negotiate, and make successful agreements in under 2 minutes (seriously!).
BONUS: Fear of rejection keeping you quiet? No problem, I've got you! I'm including 2 bonus lessons all about Rejection Recovery.
Drop the fear, save yourself time, and enjoy more sexual exchanges!
DETAILS & SCHEDULE
Class Overview
Learn at your own pace, then join our live monthly call
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LESSON 1
How To Ask For What You Want
Take the stress out of the hunting experience by having a tested framework to follow. The first step is getting clear on what you want and how to communicate that with your potential playmates. This original formula by Dr. Oneal follows a very specific order supported by brain science to start off your conversation with success.
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LESSON 2
Move on, Modify, or Wrap it Up!
Close the deal! This critical portion of the course is where you determine whether or not you and your potential playmate are a good fit. This includes knowing how to modify or negotiate to collaborate on an exchange everyone involved can get excited about. By the end of this lesson you will know the entire formula for confident offer making!
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LESSON 3
BONUS: The Gift of No
Reframe your relationship with no and being turned down. Comfortability with no is a skill that every successful Lifestyler has. To find the experiences you desire, you will be told no and you'll have to say no. This lesson will help turn this important two-letter word into something you EMBRACE rather than avoid! Yes, it is possible, and yes, it will change the game.
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LESSON 4
BONUS: Rethinking Rejection
Fear of rejection getting in your way? Many people avoid making offers because they're afraid of being turned down. This lesson will help you overcome the intimidation & show up with confidence. We'll cover how to respond when you've been turned down, tips to not take it personally, and a reframe that will lessen the sting of "rejection."
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LIVE Q&A
Live Group Coaching (recordings)
Re-watch live recordings with questions & stories from other students. After you've learned the material and gotten some practice out in the real world, this is your opportunity to learn from other's experiences and get answers to questions you might have had too!
Gain all the skills you need!
I've laid out the roadmap for you, all you need to do is follow it.
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Why Learn About Rejection?
Because honestly, fear of rejection is probably the #1 reason you’re still sitting on the bench or not starting to play until 1 AM.
Feeling “awkward,” needing liquid courage, hesitating, intimidation, and early morning sex are some of the greatest indicators that you are nervous about how a playmate(s) may respond to your interest in them.
THAT is why I focused half the course on rejection. Because by working on your relationship with rejection, you're opening up a world of limitless possibilities. You'll discover a newfound sense of confidence that will have you strutting into those parties like a Lifestyle black belt. You'll be able to fully embrace your desires, make those deliciously tempting advances, and revel in the satisfaction of knowing you're in control of your own pleasure.
With the tools I share in this course, you’ll get to conquer your fear, unleash your deliciously confident self, and experience a whole new level of pleasure at your upcoming sex parties.
Fear of rejection doesn’t have to stand in the way of your pleasure any longer...
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BONUSES & GOODIES
What's Included
Learn the material on your own time, come to live coaching calls for support!
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2 Video Lessons: How to Make a Sexual Offer ($150 Value)
Enjoy Dr. Oneal's engaging personality through the video recordings with guidence on how to practice these skills out in the real world.
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2 Bonus Lessons: Rejection Recovery ($150 Value)
2 bonus lessons to help diminish the sting of rejection: two recorded video lessons, 7 pages of written overview, 2 printable cheatsheets, and 5 practice worksheets.
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50+ Page Workbook ($70 Value)
Review the material covered in the video recordings and have access to overview cheatsheets you can print out to access later.
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10 Practice Exercises ($50 Value)
Practice what's being preached! Cognitive understanding of ideas can only take you so far— practicing these skills will go a long way to building your confidence. Each lesson includes one or more practice exercises.
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Q&A Coaching Sessions— recorded ($100 Value)
To get the most out of the course, I will be hosting regular group coaching sessions. This is a private call only available to course takers, so you can practice your skills in a safe setting and be able to ask questions specifically related to your experience.
Get $520 value for only $137!
Get instant access to the course— boost your confidence tonight
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I was very impressed with Dr. Cari's presentation & authenticity! Very empathetic & credible as someone who has experienced the same anxieties as everyone experiences when new to the Lifestyle.
Scott
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I've made it my mission to lower the barrier to entry for anyone who is interested in attending Swinger Parties. Because I know what it's like to want to be there, but to run into problems and drama at every corner because of all the things I didn't know.
I've now been playing in the Lifestyle for over a decade and have coached thousands of people navigating non-monogamy. I am pleased to be a guide for you in your own exploration.
My credentials include...
- Ph.D. in Human Sexuality
- Board Certified Clinical Sexologist
- Certified Sex and Intimacy Coach
- Board Certified Sex Coach
- Plant Medicine Integration Coach
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Become the master of making sexual offers
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Find & hookup with the people who want what you want!
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Communicate with ease, clarity, & confidence
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Remove the guess work— Know what to ask, when to ask, & how to ask it.
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Don't let fear of rejection hold you back any longer!
$137
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How many times can I attend the coaching call? How do I access it?
A: You are welcome to attend the live sessions as many times as you'd like while they are ongoing! Feel free to join each month to ask new questions or practice your skills! Check your email for the date, time, and the access link for the upcoming session.
UPDATE: these recurring live sessions are now on hold and/or only held intermittently. Session recordings are available to watch in the learning center.
Q: Can I rewatch coaching calls?
A: Yes! Every coaching call is recorded which means you have access to an entire library of past sessions you can revisit for insight.
Q: Can I remain anonymous in the coaching calls?
A: Absolutely! Your privacy and comfort are important to me. I have implemented measures to ensure that you can remain anonymous if you choose to do so. You can ask questions and receive coaching without your face and name being shared— consent is sexy!
Q: How & when do I get access to the course?
A: You get access immediately after your purchase! Once you've completed your purchase, you will receive an email with access to our private members area. This is the place where you will be able to access the course, downloadable workbook, and bonus videos!
Q: Can I purchase if I'm outside of the United States?
A: Unfortunately, no. United States sales only.
Q: What are Dr. Cari Oneal's credentials?
A: Cari Oneal, Ph.D. is a Professional Sexologist and Coach who specializes in alternative relationship styles. Her credentials include...
- PhD, Human Sexuality (emphasis: Sexual Wellbeing)
- Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Certified Practitioner
- Board Certified Clinical Sexologist
- Certified Sex and Intimacy Coach
- Board Certified Sex Coach (CSC)
- Plant Medicine Integration Coach (in progress...)
To learn more about Dr. Cari Oneal, take a look at her website.
Q: How much time does the course take?
A: The course itself consists of about 2 hours worth of material! To get the transformation you are looking for, I recommend you spend additional time practicing your new skills, filling out the worksheets, practicing techniques, and reviewing with your partner(s) or friends.
Q: How does the money back guarantee work?
A: We want you to succeed, so let’s talk about it and see if we can help you get there!
If you're not satisfied during the first 30 days after buying this course, have done your homework, and come to coaching calls where I can assist you but still feel like you did not receive great value, please send an email with why you thought the course did not meet your expectations and we will refund your money.
Q: How long do I have access to the course?
A: Once you purchase the course, you have lifetime access! You can take your time or "binge" the course— up to you! And when your Lifestyle needs call for it, you can revisit the material anytime.
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