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DR. CARI ONEAL PRESENTS

HOW TO MAKE A

SEXUAL OFFER

The class for Swingers who want to get the most fun & pleasure out of their time at parties without wasting time beating around the bush. Learn how to ask for what you want, negotiate, and close the deal with confidence!

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WHY I CREATED THIS CLASS

Less Time Wasted = More Fun!

One of the most awkward and poorly executed things I see in the Lifestyle is people who don’t know how to make an offer for the sexual exchange they want.

Many times, couples will flirt all night and go home without having the experience they'd hoped for. Or if they do get to play, the action doesn't start until quite late or early in the morning (sadly, when erections and stamina are not at their best).

You can do better than that!

Why not learn how to make an offer, negotiate it to a win/win, and enjoy the rest of the night closing the deal!

I created an easy-to-remember formula for how to make a sexual offer that is courteous, consensual, and extremely efficient at finding and creating the sexual experience(s) you want.

Further, this formula uses what we know about brain science, human nature, and information from thousands of client sessions to ensure your success. I will take out the guess work for you and teach you what to say and when to say it. By following the very specific order I provide, you can share your intentions, negotiate, and make successful agreements in under 2 minutes.

BONUS: Fear of rejection keeping you quiet? No problem, I got you! I'm including a bonus session (+2 written lessons) all about Rejection Recovery.

Drop the fear, save yourself time, and enjoy more sexual exchanges!

DETAILS & SCHEDULE

Class Schedule

Over 4 weeks of 60min sessions held via Zoom, we will cover the following topics...

26 JANUARY 2023 (7:00 PM - 8:00 PM MST)

How to Make a Sexual Offer (PART 1)

Take the stress out of the hunting experience by having a well-structured framework to follow. Our first session dives into Part 1 of the How to Make a Sexual Offer formula. The formula follows a very specific order supported by brain science to start off your conversation with success.
2 FEBRUARY 2023 (7:00 PM - 8:00 PM MST)

How to Make a Sexual Offer (PART 2)

Strengthen your confidence while learning the second part of the formula. In this session we will put it all together, practice on each other, and work on feeling more comfortable making offers. This formula is unique from others as it helps you determine whether or not you and your playmate are looking for the same thing before unnecessarily disclosing personal sexual health info.
9 FEBRUARY 2023 (7:00 PM - 8:00 PM MST)

BONUS: Rejection Recovery

Fear of rejection getting in your way? Many people avoid making offers because they're afraid of being turned down. That's why I've added a whole session about rejection: how to recover from it, tips to not take the rejection personally, and a reframe that will change how you perceive "no." And in case you're timid when turning down someone else's offer, you will also get tips and practice time saying no with confidence.
23 FEBRUARY 2023 (7:00 PM - 8:00 PM MST)

Q&A with Dr. Oneal

Where are YOU stuck? We will be skipping a week before this session so you have extra time to practice, make mistakes, hopefully recover, and gain confidence. This session is a live Q&A. It’s your opportunity to ask questions specific to you and your needs!

BONUSES & GOODIES

What's Included

Learn the material in class and review it later

4 Live Group Sessions

Learn the material and practice with other group members. The first three sessions will focus on learning and the final one will be a troubleshooting Q&A. Each will be 60 minutes.
50+ Page Workbook

Review the material covered in the live class sessions and have access to review cheatsheets you can print out to access later.
8 Practice Exercises

Keep the material fresh between sessions! There will be a practice exercise for each lesson so you can practice what we learned that week.
2 Bonus Lessons: Rejection Recovery

2 bonus lessons to help diminish the sting of rejection: includes 60 min group call, 7 pages of written overview, 2 printable cheatsheets, and 2 practice worksheets.

I thought this was a great class and excellent info! Dr. Cari's awesome, cute personality made me feel comfortable.

Brandie

Dr. Oneal Course Taker

Pricing & Enrollment

Choose the enrollment that’s right for you.

Solo Fun

Take the class— just for you

$87

Coming solo? No problem!

We will be using breakout rooms so you can practice with others.

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Bring the Party

Take the class & bring a +1

$130.50

Want to learn & practice with your partner, playmate, or fun friend? Make it easy for you both— get your own login, workbook, and personal class emails dropped directly to each of you.

Save them a spot for 50% off their enrollment.

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Pssttt... Because this is the very first launch of this class, I am offering it at a major discount.

This is the lowest price you will ever see for this course!

SEXOLOGIST, LIFESTYLE COACH

DR. CARI

ONEAL

I've made it my mission to lower the barrier to entry for anyone who is interested in attending Swinger Parties. Because I know what it's like to want to be there, but to run into problems and drama at every corner because of all the things I didn't know.

I've now been playing in the Lifestyle for over a decade and have coached thousands of people navigating non-monogamy. I am pleased to be a guide for you in your own exploration.