How to Make a Sexual Offer

DR. CARI ONEAL PRESENTS

HOW TO MAKE A

SEXUAL OFFER

Ask for what you want, negotiate, & close the deal with confidence! This is the class for Swingers who want to get the most fun & pleasure out of their time at parties without wasting time beating around the bush.

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WHY I CREATED THIS CLASS

Less Time Wasted = More Fun!

One of the most awkward and poorly executed things I see in the Lifestyle is people who don’t know how to make an offer for the sexual exchange they want.

Many times, couples will flirt all night and go home without having the experience they'd hoped for. Or if they do get to play, the action doesn't start until quite late or early in the morning (sadly, when erections and stamina are not at their best).

You can do better than that!

Why not learn how to make an offer, negotiate it to a win/win, and enjoy the rest of the night closing the deal!

I created an easy-to-remember formula for how to make a sexual offer that is courteous, consensual, and extremely efficient at finding and creating the sexual experience(s) you want.

This formula uses what we know about brain science, human nature, and information from thousands of client sessions to ensure your success. I will take out the guess work for you and teach you what to say and when to say it. By following the very specific order I provide, you can share your intentions, negotiate, and make successful agreements in under 2 minutes (seriously!).

BONUS: Fear of rejection keeping you quiet? No problem, I've got you! I'm including 2 bonus lessons all about Rejection Recovery.

Drop the fear, save yourself time, and enjoy more sexual exchanges!

DETAILS & SCHEDULE

Class Overview

Learn at your own pace, then join our live monthly call

LESSON 1

How To Ask For What You Want

Take the stress out of the hunting experience by having a tested framework to follow. The first step is getting clear on what you want and how to communicate that with your potential playmates. This original formula by Dr. Oneal follows a very specific order supported by brain science to start off your conversation with success.
LESSON 2

Move on, Modify, or Wrap it Up!

Close the deal! This critical portion of the course is where you determine whether or not you and your potential playmate are a good fit. This includes knowing how to modify or negotiate to collaborate on an exchange everyone involved can get excited about. By the end of this lesson you will know the entire formula for confident offer making!
LESSON 3

BONUS: The Gift of No

Reframe your relationship with no and being turned down. If you are playing out in the wild and making offers, then there will come a time when you will receive a no to your offer (and have to tell someone else no). This lesson gives you helpful tools to manage these responses with grace and clarity.
LESSON 4

BONUS: Rethinking Rejection

Fear of rejection getting in your way? Many people avoid making offers because they're afraid of being turned down. That's why I've added a whole lesson about rejection: how to recover from it, tips to not take the rejection personally, and a reframe that will change how you perceive "no."
MONTHLY LIVE SESSION

Live Group Coaching Session

Where are YOU stuck? Once per month, I will be hosting a live group coaching and Q&A session exclusively for course takers. After you've learned the material and gotten some practice out in the real world, this is your opportunity to ask questions specific to you and your needs!

Gain all the skills you need!

I've laid out the roadmap for you, all you need to do is follow it.

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BONUSES & GOODIES

What's Included

Learn the material on your own time, come to live coaching calls for support!

2 Video Lessons: How to Make a Sexual Offer ($200 Value)

Enjoy Dr. Oneal's engaging personality through the video recordings with guidence on how to practice these skills out in the real world.
2 Bonus Lessons: Rejection Recovery ($100 Value)

2 bonus lessons to help diminish the sting of rejection: two recorded video lessons, 7 pages of written overview, 2 printable cheatsheets, and 5 practice worksheets.
50+ Page Workbook ($50 Value)

Review the material covered in the video recordings and have access to overview cheatsheets you can print out to access later.
10 Practice Exercises ($50 Value)

Practice what's being preached! Cognitive understanding of ideas can only take you so far— practicing these skills will go a long way to building your confidence. Each lesson includes one or more practice exercises.
Free Access to the Live Group Coaching Sessions ($500 Value)

To get the most out of the course, I will be hosting regular group coaching sessions. This is a private call only available to course takers, so you can practice your skills in a safe setting and be able to ask questions specifically related to your experience.

Get $1,000 value for only $167!

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I thought this was a great class & excellent info!

Dr. Cari's awesome, cute personality made me feel comfortable.

Brandie

Dr. Oneal Course Taker

Pricing & Enrollment

Choose the enrollment that’s right for you.

Solo Fun

Take the class— just for you

$167

Coming solo? No problem!

The live group coaching calls may include practice time, which will allow you to practice with other course takers!

Only one student is permitted to the live call per-purchase. If you want to learn with your partner, please choose the other pricing option.

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Bring the Party

Take the class & bring a +1

$267.20

Want to learn & practice with your partner, playmate, or fun friend? Make it easy for you both— get your own login, workbook, and access to the Live Group Coaching dropped directly to each of you.

Save them a spot for 40% off their enrollment.

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SEXOLOGIST, LIFESTYLE COACH

DR. CARI

ONEAL

I've made it my mission to lower the barrier to entry for anyone who is interested in attending Swinger Parties. Because I know what it's like to want to be there, but to run into problems and drama at every corner because of all the things I didn't know.

I've now been playing in the Lifestyle for over a decade and have coached thousands of people navigating non-monogamy. I am pleased to be a guide for you in your own exploration.